
Just weeks into the 2025 NFL season, Hailee Steinfeld is offering an honest look at what life is really like as the wife of Buffalo Bills quarterback and reigning MVP Josh Allen. In a Variety interview published on October 3, the 28-year-old actress and singer reflected on how Allen’s intensely structured football career has reshaped her own fast-paced routine in Hollywood.
“Our worlds are so different,” Steinfeld said. “What I do can change at any moment, but his job follows such a strict schedule.” She admitted that learning to adjust to his rhythm—marked by early mornings, team practices, game days, and recovery sessions—has taught her a new kind of discipline.
The couple, who married on May 31 in a private ceremony at San Ysidro Ranch in Montecito, California, wanted their wedding day to be completely focused on each other. Guests were asked to put away their phones to create a moment of total presence—something Steinfeld says has carried into their marriage.
Since becoming Mrs. Allen, Steinfeld has been embracing a slower pace. Fresh off voicing Gwen Stacy in Spider-Man: Beyond the Spider-Verse, she said the shift has been both refreshing and grounding. “This time of year, I get to slow down, support him, and enjoy life,” she said. “I’ve never lived this part of life before—outside of work—and it’s been really special.”
Allen, 29, who has led the Bills to a perfect 4–0 start, also opened up about how his marriage has strengthened his focus and perspective. In a recent press conference, he called marrying Steinfeld “the most important decision” of his life, adding that her support has been a huge source of motivation during the demanding season.
The two have reportedly developed a routine that keeps them connected despite their busy careers. Steinfeld often travels to Buffalo for home games, while Allen joins her on set during the offseason. According to Steinfeld, the secret to their relationship is respect for each other’s ambitions and a shared understanding of hard work.
Fans have quickly dubbed them one of the NFL’s favorite power couples, blending the intensity of professional sports with Hollywood’s star appeal. Together, they’ve shown that love, communication, and mutual support can thrive even under the pressure of packed schedules and public life—proof that teamwork extends far beyond the field.